Fuck, is that ever weird.
The Mexican called me tonight. I had my phone turned off, which is very likely a blessing.
We haven't talked in 18 months. Since before I met my ex-boyfriend. Why the fuck would the Mexican suddenly think of me today... and not just to send me an email, but to CALL me? WHAT IS THAT?
And he didn't acknowledge how totally random the call was. Even weirder, he had kept my old number. Why would he do that? Why did he email me randomly a few months ago, and then not respond when i sent him a birthday email in December? What goes on in this guy's head? And more importantly, do I care?
I think I should play head games with him. Tell him I'm dealing with a break up and have midterms. Both of which are true. But the real truth is that I want to tell him how long my ex and i were together so he can do the math and know i wasn't thinking about him this whole time.
stupid, but i like it.
I sent the email a completely passive-aggressive email. I apologized for not answering the phone but explained that I'm 'going through a bad break up.' And I made sure to include how long i've been with this person, which would be since just after the Mexican left my city. So all this time that the Mexican has been playing his stupid email games, and not responding but then saying he "misses me" and has had some dreams about me... I've been happily in a relationship not missing him.
I have been waiting to snub the Mexican for YEARS! Since 2004. Since the first time he was inconsiderate and selfish with me. I feel great. Life is so sweet sometimes.